When One Partner Withdraws: Understanding Stonewalling and Emotional Shutdowns
A thoughtful look at what’s really happening when a partner shuts down, and how couples can move from disconnection to deeper understanding and repair.
The Four Communication Styles That Harm Relationships — and How to Change Them
We all want to feel heard, understood, and safe in our relationships — yet the way we communicate often gets in the way of that connection. Over time, small habits like criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and withdrawal can quietly erode trust and closeness. In this article, I explore the four communication styles that harm relationships — and how to replace them with empathy, respect, and emotional safety. Real change begins not with perfect words, but with the intention to truly understand one another.
Why doesn’t my partner listen to me?
In conflict, most couples don’t hear each other accurately—words get filtered through stress, assumptions, and past hurts. Here’s why it happens, what you can do, and how therapy can help.
Modern Love, Many Forms: How Relationships Are Evolving in a Polyamorous and Monogamous World
The way we build and sustain relationships is changing — and that’s a good thing. From the history of marriage as a tool of property and control, to today’s growing conversations about polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, and redefining commitment, people are finding new ways to love and connect. But evolving relationships also bring new questions: What do we want from our partnerships? How do we navigate jealousy, boundaries, or societal expectations?
In this article, we explore how relationship models have shifted over time, why people are embracing more diverse ways of loving, and how therapy can support you in finding what feels right for you — whether that’s monogamy, polyamory, or something in between.
Blame in Relationships: Why We Do It, How It Hurts, and What Therapy Can Offer
Blame can erode connection. Discover why it happens and how therapy can help couples reconnect.