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I'm Mark Ryan, a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and NCPS Accredited Relationship Therapist working with couples, individuals, and polycules across London. This is where I write about the things that come up most often in the room — jealousy, coming out to a partner, separation, sex and intimacy, and the ordinary arguments that usually aren't about what they first appear to be about.
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Why Some Couples Experience More Relationship Problems In Winter Months – And How Therapy Can Help
Winter can be a beautiful time of year—cozy evenings, twinkling lights, celebrations, and the promise of a fresh start with the new year. However, for some couples, the colder months bring more than just frosty mornings; they also bring tension, disconnection, fights and conflict.
If you’ve found yourself arguing more, feeling distant from your partner, or struggling with low energy in your relationship, you’re not alone. Many couples experience an increase in conflict during winter, and the reasons go deeper than just the change in weather.
Let’s explore why couples tend to struggle in winter and, more importantly, how therapy can help strengthen your relationship during these difficult months.