Repair After a Fight: A Step-by-Step Guide to Rebuilding Safety and Trust

Repair After a Fight: A Step-by-Step Guide to Rebuilding Safety and Trust

Conflict is inevitable in close relationships — but disconnection doesn’t have to be. This practical, step-by-step guide explores how couples can repair after a fight, rebuild emotional safety, and restore trust through intentional communication and empathy. Learn why repair matters more than being right, and how therapy can provide powerful tools to break negative cycles and strengthen long-term connection.

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Surviving Christmas Without Falling Out: How Couples Can Navigate Conflict During the Holidays

Surviving Christmas Without Falling Out: How Couples Can Navigate Conflict During the Holidays

Christmas can place unexpected strain on even the strongest relationships. Heightened expectations, family pressures, and emotional fatigue often mean conflict feels closer to the surface. This article explores why tensions rise at this time of year, how couples can navigate disagreements more gently, and when relationship therapy might help.

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The Four Communication Styles That Harm Relationships — and How to Change Them

The Four Communication Styles That Harm Relationships — and How to Change Them

We all want to feel heard, understood, and safe in our relationships — yet the way we communicate often gets in the way of that connection. Over time, small habits like criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and withdrawal can quietly erode trust and closeness. In this article, I explore the four communication styles that harm relationships — and how to replace them with empathy, respect, and emotional safety. Real change begins not with perfect words, but with the intention to truly understand one another.

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